I want to have a child - by Ni Zain

So you want to have a child? Or even another one? Well, that's fine for me, but are you really ready? Oh, you think you can have a child at any time? Unfortunatly these times are over...

Since our wonderful planet earth has been depleted, is overloaded with toxic of all sort and women's lifestyles are not very healthy anymore, the times are over where you just should go for getting pragnent. Why? Because every week I see a child which has one or another problem and when I trace it back together with the mother, it always comes up that the main source is the mother. It is our job as women to be ready and healthy to give the best to our children. I also thought eating health and not smoking was doing the job. But no, it is really not like this anymore.

So what should you do before you get pregnant?

Well, a good start is to stop smoking at least 1 - 2 years before, best, never smoke anyway... Than take out all the fillings from your teeth, they are more toxic than you think, but this has to be done the right way otherways the shoot goes back big time... Next thing is to detox your body for more than 1 year. Fastening and a colema is not doing the job and will do more harm than good. You need to do a professional full detox of your body. You need to get your organs working well and look that you get the right nutrition balance for your needs. No, a multivitamin is not doing the job, you need to eat the food to get the full blown minerals and nutritions and only your body knows how much and when, but you got to have to learn these things again, because brainwashed as we are, we forgot our basic instincts. No, not the ones with that sexy lady, even some of them you might need to get a nice little baby together.... When I hear, that women in some countries get vaccinated during pragnancy, I have to ask: Are they mad? Don't we know already by now, that vaccination is dangerous? All those toxin into a woman who is just creating new life? Where every single cell is formed and reacts on any kind of influence? Please, never let anyone talk you into vaccination, not for you, nor for your child. Read my articles on vaccination and all links on those pages and you will understand. - Next step is to look how you can clear out your home and working space as much as possible from toxin, so your baby is not confronted with all the toxic stuff you use around you - a bit like a chemical depot if I look at peoples homes sometimes. What some people have in their fridge, I would not even put in my garage!!! And last but not least, get the father sorted out as well. He likes his cigarettes and beer? Oh, he likes cigarres, brandy and raw meat? That's for sure better... Dads to be, have a lot to give to their children. Alcoholism, violence and non respect of women. But as some men showed me in the pat, they can do much better if they understand and what to give their best to their children. So, better sort that out BEFORE you say: I want a child!

You think I am a bit over the top? A bit down your privacy? Sorry, no. I am the advocate of your child to be! Does he has a joice? No, but you got it, right now, but you need to know and most moms-to-be don't know, as nobody tells them.

So what effect can it have on your child if you don't make a change long before you get pragnant?

To make it simple and easy to understand: If you smoking, you have lots of toxin in your body, with the placenta your baby is getting them full blast. Additonal, each time you are smoking, your oxygen supply in your body goes down up to 60%. The one getting the littlest amount of oxygen at this very moment is your baby. Just imagine, someone putting your had under water for a long time. How does that feel? How do you feel? You have fear to die and this is what happens to your baby. So there is no surprise that today so many kids are so fearFULL. - If you are stressed your baby is stress. You heart rate is going up, your adrenalin too. Same happens to your baby. So too much adrenalin does what???? Yes, you got it. It makes you hyper. Hyper - hyperactive! So calm down, take a rest a few times a day. Don't let anybody get into your way. What is more important? That boss calling you, telling you, you need to get to him in a minute or your baby? Think lady, think!!! - Food. Okay, junk food just does not do it. Not for you and not for your baby. Junk food is full of stuff which, if you would have a bottle of it in front of it, you would not even thouch it, but in small protions you are eating it each day and so does your baby. A very common one is Bensylaclohol. One of the main causes for cancer. It is even in baby lotion, bottled water, corn flakes and baby milk products... Eating real food in many viarities will be the best for you and your babies health. - Avoid any medication at any time before and during your pregnancy. Many medications have a direct impact on your brain and other important functions in your body, your baby is infuenced by them more than you think. Learning difficulties at a later age in school mostly go back to mothers who took hormonal drugs such as the pill and had amalgan fillings in their teeth. Later the child is "blamed" for being lazy or not focusing. There has to be a big change in our thinking in the future! - Coffee and Choclate has now strongly linked to heart problems in children. Mothers-to-be who drink coffee, even very small amounts, give birth to children who's heart tissue is much thinner than in children of mother who don't go for coffee and choclate. Once this "birth defect" is there, it will be hard to sort this out again. No surprise children with wholes in their hearts are more and more common. This facts are far to less published in teh media - the question is: How much does the coffee and choclate industrie have influence on this??? - There are many more ways to support the health of your future baby and I am happy for each mom-to-be to come to me and get a session to make those major changes....

My basic believe is, that as our family systems are today, we need to educate and protect mothers-to-be much more. Education for women has to start at an early age in school, to make pre-teenage girls understand that everything they do will have an influence on their child. I have seen children from mothers who used alcohol and drugs at young ages and almost all of them had learning problems, poor health and some even irreparable birth defects. Does our next generation really have to pay for our not knowing? When my mom was pregnat with me she had sleeping problems and got a medication from her doctor called "Contagan". Those mothers who used Contagan gave birth to children with short arms and legs. I was lucky, my mom had a bad feeling to take Contagan and I was born normal. But only with the luck of my mom following her deepest insticts. She is still telling me, how happy she is about the fact that she always followed her own fellings when it came to her children. - We also must see that women today have the possebility to be pragnant, by more protection of pragnat women. This is where goouverments really lacking their help. Why not sending pragnant women home and pay them their full selleries out of a special gouverment fond? There is soooo much money for weappons and other useless stuff, so why do women have to risk their and their children lifes by working during pragnancy? And because our world is not yet like this, we, each single person out there has to make a change. We need to support women to stay at home and rest during pragnancy. This is a part of our man-woman cooperation. Man looks for the family, woman takes a rest for the baby. I know, this is some sort of future music, but WHY NOT? Special classed in school, to make girls understand that getting a child is more than getting money from a man and the gouverment. There are many ways and you who wants to have a baby, are the frist one who can make this change!

You have the choice, so make it!

Ni Zain - For all moms-to-be out there!

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